I haven't felt like writing this week. I'm not really sure why, but there just didn't seem to be anything pressing to write about.
Today I went to work, like usual for a Thursday afternoon. No matter what kind of mood I am in heading in the door my first couple students always make me smile and laugh. I just can't stay in a bad mood at work, most days. I have a student who comes from a family of smokers. She doesn't smoke, and hates it, but has lived with it her entire life. Within the last few months she has developed a chronic cough. Every week she comes in it seems worse. Today she couldn't play a full phrase without having to stop and cough. (For my non musical friends, a phrase could be about 10 or so notes in a row...or in other words, not very many notes together) To play a full page of music she has to stop at least 5 or 6 times. I have asked her to go to the doctor and she laughs and says that there is no way her parents would take her to the doc. I have been after her for awhile to get it checked out. Well, today I had my chance. I caught her dad as they were leaving and told him that I thought she should see the doctor. He laughed at me and told me she was fine. I insisted that I really felt she needed to see her doctor. He once again laughed at me and started to pretend to dig a hole. I looked at him, and said "whatever" and walked away. I can not believe a parent can't see that their child needs medical help. I am positive this kid has asthma but no one will help her.
At what point is it child abuse? If she was under 18 I would seriously consider calling child services on those parents. Harsh? Maybe. But being a parent has responsibilities and I feel they are neglecting those responsibilities. That is very frustrating as a teacher!
At least I know I will never do that to my kids!!
1 comment:
That's horrible! I've often felt the same way though, when I have patients that come in reaking like a bar!!!! I hope she gets checked out, or gets out of her parents' house, it helped me!!!
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